Thursday, October 21, 2010

Summer Abroad: Guadalajara

The summer between my freshman year and sophomore year at KU, I did a "summer abroad" experience in Guadalajara, Mexico, organized and sponsored by the Spanish department at the university. As I recall, I paid for it myself! Amazing that it was that affordable. The finances came from some weekend and Christmas vacation waitressing at a Chinese restaurant, and also from working in the cafeteria dormitory at Corbin several mornings a week, serving breakfast. I thought that was an easy way to make money; all I lost out on was a little snoozing late in the mornings. I was excited by all the tips I made at the Chinese restaurant (back in Overland Park) during every major break during the year. Didn't realize til many years later that I was supposed to declare those tips . . .oops . . . um . . never mind. OK.

Anyway, I was able to pay for tuition, bus transportation and room and board in Guadalajara with money saved all year. (My father kindly supported me at KU so I did not have to worry about the basics during the year). OK, well, to get to Guadalajara, I took a Greyhound bus to the border of Mexico, where I was met by my Mexican beau. He took me to the home of some cousins to stay for a week or so before going on to Guadalajara. He accompanied me on my bus ride down there, which was an overnight bus from Monterrey.

First Home in Guadalajara: Room and Board
I arrived at the home of some older ladies who took in room & board students. I shared a room with an American girl (KU student whom I hadn't known before) at this house for one month. It was pleasant enough. I remember the big garden out one of their windows. They had created a cascading garden on a rocky wall . . and that was the view from their living room. I learned to take the bus to the campus where my KU classes were. Went to a church led by missionaries on Sunday evenings. Went to Tlaquepaque and the main plaza of Guadalajara pretty often . . . sometimes alone and sometimes with other KU students. My very favorite place that I visited was Lake Chapala. I still fantasize about living there in my old age. Who knows, could happen.

Second Home: Ofelia's House
Meanwhile, at the church I was going to, I made friends with a Mexican young lady named Ofelia. She invited me to live in her house. At the end of the month, my roommate was going to move out, and the old ladies I was living with were going to raise the rent on me, being just one person. Instead, I moved to Ofelia's house for the second month. I think I must have photos of some of these things, but not very many. I don't think I took pictures of the houses that I lived in, for some strange reason. To illustrate this blog entry, I will have to borrow some photo of Guadalajara from the Internet.

When Summer Was Over
Will go find such a photo now! And hope to expand on this entry pretty soon. At the end of the summer, my Mexican beau once again came to escort me back to Monterrey, where I was met by my parents who drove down with my little sister for a brief vacation! They all visited Galeana, the little mountain village that he was from, and where the mission was that received some financial support from my parents' church in Kansas City. After that, they and I returned home by a long route: through Chihuahua (where we saw the home of Pancho Villa's widow -- and she was there! Still alive!) and New Mexico (where we visited an aunt of mine -- sister of my father.) Then home. And pretty soon, it would be time to go back to KU, where I was planning to live in the "Rib." In my next entry, I will explain what the Rib was.

(I borrowed that photo from somewhere on the Internet. Here is the URL: http://www.destination360.com/north-america/mexico/images/s/mexico-guadalajara-s.jpg. I did see this cathedral in Guadalajara many times that summer.)

Friday, July 30, 2010

Leaving Home: My First Home Away From Home (#4)


I spent a couple of summers in Mexico before actually leaving home, but I will save description of the Mexico trips for another blog.

At the Dorm
This one will be about my first home away from home after graduating from high school (in Overland Park, a southwestern suburb of the Greater Kansas City area). I think my high school graduating class had 700+ students in it. Lots of us headed over to Lawrence, Kansas, to the University of Kansas, just less than an hour drive away. A new piece of highway was completed sometime in my early days at KU, making it a very easy drive.

Why KU?
I had considered going to the University of Texas at Austin because of their great Spanish department, which was going to be my major, but there was no source that I knew of the extra money I would need beyond the cost of going to KU, which was what my father said he could and would sponsor. In-state tuition at KU in those days was about $250/semester or less. Housing in the most affordable dormitory, double occupancy, was about $1300 for the year if I remember correctly. Can that be true? Or was that per semester? It was pretty cheap, anyway!

Corbin and GSP, Freshman Girls' Dorms Side by Side
OK, so, the dorm that I stayed in was called Corbin, located several blocks north of the KU campus. It was part of a 2-dorm complex called GSP-Corbin, and was all girls. I had wanted to stay at Hashinger, a coed dorm where various of my cousins had stayed, but we sent in the dorm application too late, and I didnt get in. When I learned that various of my Christian friends from my high school were going to be in Corbin, I was less disappointed about that. But I WAS disappointed that I ended up being the odd girl out when it came to matching up with roommates, so I was going to take potluck with roommate selection. My roommate ended up being a spunky and interesting girl from Canada, named Helen. We were different in lots of ways, but got along well. Right away, she proposed coordinating our bedspreads, so we went shopping at JCPenney and got matching ones, complete with pillow shams. I still have mine! I also bought a piece of carpet to match the color scheme, which was various shades of blue.

Room Specifics
Anyway, Corbin Hall was a rather historic building, from what I understood . . . being one of the oldest dorms west of the Mississippi or something like that. Our room was basic, but had a great benefit compared to other dorms that I have seen: it had a little closet room with just a sink in it. Though not as convenient as having a toilet and/or shower there, this meant that in the mornings, we could brush our teeth, fix our hair or whatever, without disturbing each other too much. I did end up working some breakfast shifts in the dorm cafeteria, so this was beneficial.

Like a Hotel or Mansion
Otherwise, it was like a huge hotel or a huge house with many rooms. Did not look too institutional; had a more homey feeling than some dorms, which are more like office buildings or school buildings. I think there was a fireplace in a lobby on the ground floor, if I recall, and a very nice media room with stereos and such, where a person could go listen to music or record music from records to cassette tapes. I made lots of those cassette tapes for myself in preparation for my summer abroad in Mexico the following summer. There was a recreational area in the basement with a ping pong table and I'm not sure what else.

I will write more about Corbin as my memory gets jogged. For now, this is the basic run-down on my first home away from home.